Relationships remain the core every fulfilled life. Volumes are written about what makes a viable relationship. A relationship can take all forms, good friends, members of family; however, the most important relationship is with your spouse or significant other. This defines your life.
Here’s one way to make a relationship work. Take two sheets of paper - on one paper list all the good things your partner offers you. On the second sheet of paper write all the bad things that keep your relationship from working.
You should spend considerable time on both lists and try to limit it to no more than five of the most important things, for good or for bad. I think it might work better if you actually spend some time thinking about it before you considered writing anything down. Once you have a sense of what you would like to say or list, begin.
You can start with the positive or the negative, whichever suits you. Once you have completed your task study your listings carefully. Make sure that you are comfortable with them, and they are authentic and meaningful. Once you are sure your lists are accurate spend a little more time thinking about them.
Consider your negative and positive lists for the next three days.
At the end of three days of careful consideration, take the list of positive remarks - the key to what makes your relationship work and put it in a safe place and make sure you review it at least once a day for the next month. Take the list of negative remark’s tear it up, and throw it away.
Now you’re on your way to making your relationship fulfilling and meaningful for the rest of your life.
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"Musings" is a feature of The Pizzaonian Newsertainment Network, Diverti Mento, editor
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